get a third party who had an affair with my wife to stay away
i recently found out that my wife had an affair while i was away for work
i confronted her with the matter and she repeatedly denied it untill she was confronted with too much facts and then she confirmed my suspisions
i asked them in a civil manner to refrain from contacting each other
i was told that they have no contact but then i caught the person red handed at my house
and my wife admitted that they still have contact
i was prepared to try and reconcile if she stopped her contact with third person but at this stage it looks like they are turning the underaged children against me
Category: Family Law, Divorces
Region: South Africa, North-West
1 Answer
Hello. Very sorry to hear that. Especially the feeling of betrayal and the pain of kids getting involved. I suggest you get a third party both of you respect to help discuss the issue otherwise you will be in a continuous state of conflict and resentment. You may also google for a marriage counselor in your area. Ultimately a marriage subsists on mutual affection and the ability to resolve differences. And both parties must want to continue with the marriage. Those would be the issues to address.