get a third party who had an affair with my wife to stay away
i recently found out that my wife had an affair while i was away for work
i confronted her with the matter and she repeatedly denied it untill she was confronted with too much facts and then she confirmed my suspisions
i asked them in a civil manner to refrain from contacting each other
i was told that they have no contact but then i caught the person red handed at my house
and my wife admitted that they still have contact
i was prepared to try and reconcile if she stopped her contact with third person but at this stage it looks like they are turning the underaged children against me
Hello. Very sorry to hear that. Especially the feeling of betrayal and the pain of kids getting involved. I suggest you get a third party both of you respect to help discuss the issue otherwise you will be in a continuous state of conflict and resentment. You may also google for a marriage counselor in your area. Ultimately a marriage subsists on mutual affection and the ability to resolve differences. And both parties must want to continue with the marriage. Those would be the issues to address.